Rover Was Special

“Dogs come into our lives to teach us about love, they depart to teach us about loss. A new dog never replaces an old dog, it merely expands the heart. If you have loved many dogs your heart is very big.”- Erica Jong. He was lifted one last time. After an agonizing consultation with my mother and brother a decision was arrived at. I knew this day was coming. Rover was no pup; he was ten years old with a growing number of health issues. He was no longer the frisky Rover, had became lethargic. In recent times Rover’s abdomen became extended. Upon examination the vet, ordered her assistant to draw fluid from his abdomen. The drawn fluid had traces of blood. Rover was not going to get better. His condition was one of management that would require him to be on a particular drug until death. I braced myself for Rover’s prognosis. In the last few weeks he had lost his aggressive and adventurous personality. Yes, dogs do have personalities. The panting almost gasping was more frequent. He had lost his appetite. It was challenging to give him the tablets. We tried to conceal the tablets in his food; however, his strong sense of smell came out on top. He had lost the drive to live. Rover was no ordinary dog. He was a mixed or crossed breed dog. Over the years, the decade we had him I got to know the meaning of his different barking. When a stranger was lurking around, his barking was different. Rover’s barking would also change when a familiar face came around, such as Tallist who helped cared for him. Folks were afraid to even touch our gate even when Rover was around the back of the yard. Rover was fierce and alert. It was sad to watch the impact of Heartworm disease on my Rover. Amazing Ways your pets can help boost your Mental Health. If you are considering adding a pet to your life, remember that responsible pet ownership requires commitment, care and attention. 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In turn, this creates a mutually beneficial dynamic that proves to be beneficial for both you and your pet. Routine and Responsibility: Caring for a pet introduces a sense of routine and responsibility into your daily life. Incorporating pets in coping strategies can be beneficial. Dogs, for example, require regular walks and feeding schedules, which can help establish structure and purpose to your day. Additionally, taking care of your pet can provide a positive focus outside of work-related stressors, as you witness the positive impact your care has on their well-being as well. Rover a Unique Dog . We acquired Rover when he was a pup. I recall at times we had to use a syringe to feed him. Rover grew into a large and attentive dog. He drank lots of water. Since boyhood I have had dogs however, I have never had a dog that drank as much water as Rover. When he was a puppy, he also enjoyed the water. I recall the first time Rover used his tail to knock on the back door; we all thought someone was trying to break down the door. Over the years that was his cue to indicate it was time to feed him. He was a particular dog; he did not drink the water left overnight. He would wait patiently until fresh water was poured into his container each morning. Rover was afraid, very afraid of thunder. In fact, on overcast days we had to ensure that the back door was closed or else Rover would walk right in and find somewhere to hide until calm returned. Rover was both a beautiful and faithful dog. On those rare occasions when I had to be out later than usual, he would remain at the gate until I drove in. Despite his monthly medical intervention it was clear Rover’s condition was worsening. It was painful to see a once robust dog a mere shadow of himself. Old age is not only for humans. We can learn quite a few things from man’s best friend. It was obvious too that Rover was in distress. The vets were frank and informative. The family had to make a decision and we did. We did not wish for Rover to suffer unduly. According to my brother, Rover was probably the best dog we ever had. Rover, in recent months had become accustomed to injections; however, this would be his final one. The vet asked whether or not I wanted to watch. How could I watch such finality? In the words of Caroline Knapp, before you get a dog, you can’t quite imagine what living with one might be like; afterward, you can’t imagine living any other way. Wayne Campbell is an educator and social commentator with an interest in development policies as they affect culture and or gender issues. waykam@yahoo.com @WayneCamo © #Rover #MyPet